Ok, there is a new internet game website out called www.instantaction.com and it is a fun, multyplayer game with a game called think tanks. I cannot play unless I am the host because it goes into all the loading junk and gets it done, then it just shows a blank blue screen talking about the host while I am stuck while every one else is playing... what is wrong?

What's wrong is the internet connection is fast and slow now and then so it's the connection's fault.