This guy i like is the host (21yrs old) at a casino. We've stared at eachother for weeks. I went to the casino saturday and some woman won 2000$ next to me..that broke the 'ice' between me and him. We 3 talked. 20 min later I looked back and him and fem employees talking to him were staring at me. 2min later he comes up to me..lowers his head next to me and said " I don't do this sort of thing..that often and i know you probly hear this from alot of guys but, *pulls out his card* this is my email and you can write me if you would ever want to go out sometime." ( he is the host *why he has a card*). I messaged him and didn't hear from him till 3 days later (that was the day he came back to work) he said "Sarah, I鈥檓 glad you feel that way. I was surprised to see that you had already emailed me!I figured I might have scared you or made you uncomfortable that night, (I鈥檓 sorry if I did) I鈥檓 guessing you probably get sick & tired of guys hitting on you all the time but I want you to know

Wow, you sound head over heels.

The guy sounds sweet, but he sounds rather shy as well (that, or there's something up!). Personally, here's some possible options:

1) he really likes you, but has somebody else that's on his mind

2) he's shy and, although he wants to know you, is a bit too reserved to tell you directly