A year ago I got an email from an old high school friend, we had dated but were never romantic; just friends. They live 3 hours drive south from us. I invited his family to a big summer party to meet my husband. The kids are cheereful and polite just like their father. Well, nothing remarkable happened but she was not friendly and we tried to ignore that. They left the next morning to continue North to visit his family. Now, I had really knocked myself out to provide a lovely time for all four of them. Later he sent an email thanking me, but no word from her. I exchanged some emails with him and also sent some friendly emails to her... all of hers went unanswered but I got read notices. He wanted to visit again in December and we were perfect hosts, Christmas presents for the children; same behaviors from his wife. The next day they continued North to visit his family again...Thank-you's from him and the kids. No calls, or email from her. Now he wants to bring them here again!

The husband comes with the wife. If you are to turn her away, you also turn him away too. Give unconditionally if you give. It is when you start to expect something in return that you have problems.

figure out whats up with her and then decide

well let her hav her sour face because it will not change and stop emailin her and tryin to be nice to her because she in not doin it in exchange