This is a business mixer with a small company that provides me some referral business. I have a personal relationship with the owner and although I cannot attend, I still want to give a gift that shows my support for his business. I know the owner is personally paying for the party, so I thought a bottle of liquor or wine with a supportive card might be a nice gesture...any thoughts ? If that is a good gift for a cocktail party host, how much should I buy? 1 bottle ? Enough for all guests (30)?

A little background, this company is very trendy and holds frequent social gatherings. A lot of networking goes on at these parties.

I would buy a moderately priced wine and maybe a cheese tray from the deli with a card.

a bottle of wine is always nice. you aren't throwing the party...you don't have to supply for everyone...that would be weird. it's the thought that counts.

i would buy something for the actual host. something they can enjoy on a different night. i would get a nice bottle of wine or champagne. but, also right now you can get the gorgeous gift packs, where they come with nice glassware.